{"id":40,"date":"2014-02-28T01:24:52","date_gmt":"2014-02-28T01:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/?p=40"},"modified":"2014-07-20T16:07:22","modified_gmt":"2014-07-20T16:07:22","slug":"best-day-ever-coming-soon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/best-day-ever-coming-soon\/","title":{"rendered":"Best day ever&#8230;coming soon"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_300\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-300\" style=\"width: 168px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-content\/uploads\/10309172_10152028140251078_9072822520316931224_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-300 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-content\/uploads\/10309172_10152028140251078_9072822520316931224_n-168x300.jpg\" alt=\"The Wests\" width=\"168\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-content\/uploads\/10309172_10152028140251078_9072822520316931224_n-168x300.jpg 168w, https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-content\/uploads\/10309172_10152028140251078_9072822520316931224_n-129x230.jpg 129w, https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-content\/uploads\/10309172_10152028140251078_9072822520316931224_n.jpg 539w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 168px) 100vw, 168px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-300\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Adalia, Takoda and daddy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I used to think that this uphill battle (the dreaded thing that folks call the Big D,\u00a0 and for good reason) would never end. Today we got a lot closer to what should have happened 3 years ago: I was present in court to respond to allegations from &#8220;you know who&#8221; for the first time <em><strong>ever<\/strong><\/em>, and the court dismissed the Violation of the protective order from 2011 when I had supposedly driven by our old home. (That&#8217;s right folks I went to jail in 2011 for driving by her home, no witnesses, no proof, and I bailed out of jail myself after 17 days in county jail, and have had to contact a bond company weekly since.) For the first time in three years, I had a normal court appearance concerning this horrible divorce.<\/p>\n<p>The judge today saw no evidence of harm to any of my family, ever. Found no\u00a0 reason to have a continuing protective order, and all that is left is to work out when and where I see my two youngest kids next, among other things&#8230;. Amen.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. and I was an hour and a half late to court due to car brakes. Still had a great day, and more to come!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to think that this uphill battle (the dreaded thing that folks call the Big D,\u00a0 and for good reason) would never end. Today we got a lot closer to what should have happened 3 years ago: I was present in court to&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":301,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40\/revisions\/301"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/focusing.in\/LeeWest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}